About Me

I am the proud mother of 6 children. 5 of our children have autism. We do not feel our world has ended, but just begun. We do not chelate, intervene biochemically, give shots of any kind, practice ABA, etc. We treat them as we treat any humanbeing. We treat them with kindness and respect and expect the same from them. They are exceptional children.

Friday, August 03, 2007

PLAYING FAVORITES...

I have been going to the same grocery store for 11 years now, since their Grand Opening 11 summers ago...

At check out the other day, Lucy, one of my favorite checkers asked me if I had a favorite child....she has never had a child, so does not know the bond of a mother and her children...

I answered, " Lucy, picking a favorite child would be like picking my favorite George Strait song....cannot be done"...

Let's see,

Amarillo by Morning, The Fireman, Baby Blue, Check Yes or No, The Chair, Pure Country, Texas Cookin'....man, I just cannot decide. I love them all the same. Each song has a special place in my brain for the first time I ever heard it.


I would probably pick Amarillo by Morning, because that was the first song I ever heard George sing live....


We could go hear him sing for $1.00 per person. Free beer for ladies. Not good beer, but FREE beer....means alot to a college student.

George was humble even back then. He would pose for pictures and sign autographs. The bigger he became, the greater his talent became.

I thank George for alot of memories. Some good, some not so good. But memories I have thanks to George.

Now, back to my children.....

Caitlin..first-born. She taught me how hard it was to be a Mommy..I thank her for that. She paved the way for the rest. She taught me that I do not need to "cure" her, but to teach her to be a person who will succeed in society....she is doing Great.

Deirdre...second-born. This child has NEVER given us a moment of trouble. She has been calm and sweet from the day she was born. She is smarter than any human I have ever met.....she makes me so happy.

Erin...third-born. She made me wake up again with Autism. She was loud from birth, but has blossomed into a sweet and thoughtful little girl. She is loved by all who she comes in contact with. A sweeter soul I have never met.

Meaghan...fourth-born. This child is a red-headed firecracker. She keeps me on my toes and I love it. Ask me again when she is a teen-ager.....hopefully, she will keep me young.

Patrick....fifth-born, first son. No one touches a mother's heart like a son. He grabbed my heart at birth and has not let go. I feel badly for the woman he brings home to marry....let's just say, it won't be pretty....

and Kiernan...sixth-born, last child. This little man will always be my baby. He is gentle of soul, but one non-stop whirl of activity. He will give you a hug and a kiss without a blink, but then, he is gone.....he makes me smile.

So, in conclusion...as you can see, I have trouble picking favorites. I find something wonderful in all of my children. They all bring a different flavor to the table. They complete my soul and fill my heart. I am blessed to have been given the opportunity to have given birth to each and every one of them.


I hope they know this......

I know I tell them.

7 comments:

mcewen said...

Ah yes! I watched 'Sophie's Choice,' when I had only one child. I sympathised with her dilemma.

When I saw it again later, when I had a mere 4 children, I was angst ridden for hours!
Cheers

Mom26children said...

Hi mcewen,
I have never been able to watch Sophies Choice...before, during or after children...
so, I know exactly what you mean.
Jeanette

Camille said...

Thanks, this is very sweet. I only have, two. I could never choose. They are both fantastic. I'm happy to claim them as my kids. I think the world should thank me for helping to make and raise both of them. :-)

Stimey said...

I've been asked which Bob Dylan song is my favorite and have answered, "Whichever one I'm listening to at the time." I sort of feel the same about my kids. All three of them are kind of my favorite.

Niksmom said...

Well, since I only have the one (though he does FEEL like more on some days! LOL), I guess it's a no-brainer. But you said it best when you wrote "They complete my soul and fill my heart. I am blessed to have been given the opportunity to have given birth to each and every one of them." AMEN

Sophie's Choice...awful. Weird, I was just talking about this w/Niksdad last night about the impossibility of choosing between two children or two equal but different passions.

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-Ken
Milwaukee

bigwhitehat said...

George Strait is my favorite non song writer. Don't take that wrong, I love him.

I watched Sophie's Choice once. It was way before I became a dad. It still pisses me off when I think about it.